{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"PoohsDen","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.ourowncorner.com\/poohsden","author_name":"Vinitha","author_url":"https:\/\/www.ourowncorner.com\/poohsden\/author\/pooh_admin\/","title":"A Happy Girl &#8212; PoohsDen","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"SnoA54pl18\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ourowncorner.com\/poohsden\/a-happy-girl\/\">A Happy Girl<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ourowncorner.com\/poohsden\/a-happy-girl\/embed\/#?secret=SnoA54pl18\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;A Happy Girl&#8221; &#8212; PoohsDen\" data-secret=\"SnoA54pl18\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.ourowncorner.com\/poohsden\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"This post first appeared at the Robinage Blog If someone ever gave me a rupee each time I was asked \u201cWhat do you want to be when you grow up?\u201d I would have a serious investment portfolio all set up and would be looking to retire in the coming 5 years. Unfortunately it doesn\u2019t happen that way. Your uncle, aunt\u2019s cousin twice removed and his pet cat, the flower vendor, the auto driver, the random stranger you share the seat with on the bus &#8211; everyone is curious about \u201cambition\u201d and \u201cfuture plans\u201d. Lofty words used right from the time you can talk. School essays constantly have \u201cWhen I grow up, I want to be\u201d as a topic. To test kids creative and writing skills. I admit it is quite a good conversation starter, an ice breaker at dinner tables and parties. Kids get warmed up with that question. The answers from the kid ensure that the parents have fodder to talk. It keeps things moving. But I have often wondered why we ask this loaded question. Why do we need to have a stock answer ready? A doctor, a fireman, a teacher and such. I remember mentioning I wanted [&hellip;]"}