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Late October heralds in the holidays in the US. Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah and New Year all roll into one massive celebration filled with parties and gifts.<\/p>\n

The Holiday Season<\/h2>\n

I love to hate this time of the year. It is pumpkin spice everything season (why do we need it?). The season of cinnamon-scented air. It is the season of people overboard with food and money. The lights twinkling and ornaments on\u00a0display are beautiful. And\u00a0there is that\u00a0feeling of gratefulness and cheer all around. But it gets a little too much.<\/p>\n

The lines in the stores are longer, the parking lots are full. I just made a mental note to avoid stores as much as possible the coming weeks. People are talking about what to wear and serve, what to gift and shop. It is an overload of commercialism and social obligations. I can feel my stress levels sky-rocketing as I go through the days around this time of the year. If you are like me, waiting for the holidays to be done here are few tips to survive the season.<\/p>\n

Set realistic expectations<\/h2>\n

For you and your family. Yes, there are people who go overboard with decorations. TV and magazines showcase the beauty of the holidays and yes it is easy to get lost in the magic. But, let us be realistic.\u00a0Set reasonable expectations on yourself.<\/p>\n

This is the reason why I don’t want to do the elf-in-the-shelf even though I love it. I know I won’t be able to sustain it as much as I would like to<\/p>\n

Don’t think it is “ruined”<\/h2>\n

Yes, disasters occur but they don’t dictate your holiday. It might look as if nothing will work but don’t worry you can get back on track. Turn your disasters into fun.<\/p>\n

There is no must<\/em> and should<\/em><\/h2>\n

Holidays are not about musts and shoulds. There is no rule that you must be present at every party you are invited to. Also there is no rule that you must buy a gift every person in your life. Draw a line and call it done.<\/p>\n

You need to be selective this time of year.<\/p>\n

Traditions can be skipped<\/h2>\n

Yes, it is nice to have family traditions. But, you have permission to skip them if needed. If your stress level gets too high forget\u00a0tradition.<\/p>\n

Decorated cookies can be a great family tradition but the mess they create makes me skip it quite frequently.<\/p>\n

The big picture<\/h2>\n

To me, the\u00a0holidays are about being grateful. They are about sharing and caring. That is my\u00a0big picture. Focussing on it helps me trim down the excess that have become a part of the culture. Refocussing on the big picture every now and then helps me keep sane.<\/p>\n

Instead of hosting a party, volunteer at a soup kitchen. \u00a0Stay indoors with your loved ones and play a boardgame.<\/p>\n

Remember to schedule some time for self-care this season. Sending holiday cheer to your family from mine!<\/p>\n

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